After a positive prenatal testing result, you may consider whether you wish to continue or to end your pregnancy. This decision should be free and informed, meaning you should not feel under external pressure when you make it and you should have all the information you need to make it. You may want to learn about different topics to make your choice:
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- The condition that was diagnosed
- The experience of families living with this condition
- The resources available in your area for people with this condition
- The pros and cons of terminating the pregnancy
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Doctors and midwives give you information to help you make these decisions. They should not put pressure on you regarding your choice.
Resources like this website and local advocacy groups can be helpful to find more information.
In this section we talk about beliefs and realities regarding this choice. Then, we talk about these options:
Myths regarding decisions after diagnosis
Myths | Reality |
I must have an abortion because my result is positive. | Abortion is a personal choice. |
The government pays for testing and abortion. This means that we should abort babies with Down syndrome. | The government pays for testing and abortion to make access equal for those who want to use them. It does not mean that using them is a better choice. |
Having a baby with Down syndrome will make my life worse.
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Most parents of people with Down syndrome report being happy. |
Having a baby with Down syndrome will make the life of my other children worse.
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Most siblings of people with Down syndrome report being happy. |
I might regret having a baby with Down syndrome. | Regret for having a baby with Down syndrome is very rare. |
I might regret aborting a baby with Down syndrome. | Regret for aborting a baby with Down syndrome is very rare. |
Abortion could make me infertile. |
An abortion done by a health care professional would not make you infertile.
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Aborting and raising the child with Down syndrome are the only options. | Adoption is also an option. |
Raising the child with Down syndrome
Most people with Down syndrome live happy lives. Their parents and siblings also tend to be happy. These families may face challenges that are different from other families. However, regret for choosing to have a baby with Down syndrome is rare.
About half of children and adults with Down syndrome have some medical issues related to their heart or gut, but most are treatable in the first year of life. Many of them are very healthy.
People with Down syndrome have intellectual disability. This means that they are not as independent as other people. Some of them are just a little bit slower. Others have more serious challenges. This usually does not prevent them and their family from being happy. Most adults with Down syndrome need to live with other adults. However, some live on their own. A few finish high school, go to university, have jobs, get married or drive a car. However, some have a hard time expressing themselves throughout their life.
You can consult the “Down syndrome” section for detailed information on Down syndrome and life with Down syndrome.
Preparation for raising a child with Down syndrome
Some people use prenatal testing to find out in advance if their baby has Down syndrome. This allows them to get ready for raising a child with special needs. They may want to read about Down syndrome. They may also want to get in touch with other families who have a member with Down syndrome. Finally, they may want to change their birth plans because the risk of complications is a bit higher when the baby has Down syndrome. Support from social services, when requested, will only be available after the birth of the baby with Down Syndrome.
The choice to prepare for the birth of a baby with Down Syndrome is a personal choice. There is no right or wrong choice.
Learn more about medical and emotional preparationFor people who choose to continue a diagnosed pregnancy, prenatal screening and/or diagnosis provide the possibility of preparing for the birth of a child with Down syndrome or another condition. Such preparation may include medical aspects and day-to-day aspects.
Medical aspects
Before outlining the medical aspects, it is important to note that not all pregnancies with Down syndrome have medical complications that require interventions shortly after birth. Still, babies with Down syndrome are more likely than other babies to have certain medical issues.
Miscarriage occurs more often in pregnancies where the fetus has a genetic condition than in other pregnancies. Such pregnancies are also more likely to be complicated by problems such as growth restriction (when the fetus grows more slowly than it should inside the womb). Therefore, when there is a positive prenatal diagnosis, the pregnancy may be monitored more closely.
Babies born with Down syndrome are more likely than most babies to have some health problems that cause complications at birth or soon after, such as heart defects or intestinal (gut) obstruction. Therefore, women carrying a fetus with Down syndrome are offered extra follow-up services and some extra precautions at birth. For instance:
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- One or more extra prenatal ultrasound scans may be offered to find any abnormalities in organs (such as heart defect or gut obstruction) or growth restriction.
- If an abnormality in an organ is detected, the choice of hospital for delivery is discussed. Health care practitioners may recommend a specialized center as opposed to a home birth, birthing homes or community hospitals.
- In case of a growth restriction, labor may need to be induced before the 39th week.
- After birth, the baby may receive more attention from medical specialists, and might be kept in the hospital a little longer than after a typical birth, before being discharged home.
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The precautions listed above may be suggested or recommended by health care providers. However, there may be differences in follow-up depending on providers, centers, regions, and more importantly, individual situations.
Emotional aspects
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- Having a baby with Down syndrome is not something most people expect when they decide to have a child. A prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome often comes as a surprise and people may have various needs and strategies to adapt to this new reality.
- People may seek counseling or emotional support, not only to help them in their decision-making, but also after their decision is made. Many grieve the “typical” child they had expected. It may be difficult to imagine the life of a person with Down syndrome and one own’s life as a parent of a child with Down syndrome. Coming to terms with the fact that their child will have Down syndrome may require a period of adjustment. It is normal to go through a range of emotions, including negative ones.
- The family may want to meet with other families living with Down syndrome. This helps to get a concrete idea of what might be similar and different about raising a child with or without Down syndrome. Other families can also be a source of practical information on services, programs, and day-to-day living.
- Support and advocacy groups for people with Down syndrome and their families may also be good sources of information and support. They may also provide a sense of community and belonging.
- Some parents can have the feeling of being pregnant with a ‘diagnosis’, not a baby. It is important to remember that they are still expecting a baby who will have their own personality and the same needs as any baby. Indeed, most parents of children with Down syndrome report that they find their child more similar to most children than different.
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Preparation for the day-to-day aspects of having a child with Down syndrome and possible medical complications can be reassuring for some people. However, it does not mean that it is necessary to prepare in any special way for the birth of a child with Down syndrome. In fact, many cases remain undiagnosed until birth and this does not prevent families from flourishing. Families welcome children with or without Down syndrome, with or without preparation.
Adoption
Adoption is also an option. Babies with Down syndrome find a home as quickly as other babies. Babies with Down syndrome go through the same steps as other babies placed for adoption. Some adoptive parents wish to adopt a baby with special needs.
There are resources to guide people in the adoption process. If you want to find out more about this option, you can contact:
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- Quebec: https://emmanuel.qc.ca/
- Canada: https://www.canadaadopts.com
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Abortion (terminating the pregnancy)
Abortion is a personal choice. Women should always be allowed to make this choice freely and with all the information they need. This is also true when this choice is made because the baby has Down syndrome. Healthcare professionals and families should not put pressure on women to abort. The government pays for prenatal testing and abortion to make sure that those who want to use them have equal access. It does not mean that using them is a better choice. The government also pays for services for those who choose to have the baby. However, the services offered and the ease of access varies depending on regions.
Abortion is legal in Canada. Women do not have to give a reason for choosing abortion. Some women need to travel to a larger city or another province to get an abortion.
Abortion in the first trimester
Most abortions are done because the woman does not want to be pregnant. These abortions are usually done early in the pregnancy. In the first trimester, abortion can be done by taking a pill. However, in most cases, the diagnosis of Down syndrome is not confirmed until after the first trimester, so abortion by taking a pill is usually not an option. It can also be done by a simple procedure at the doctor’s office. The doctor “vacuums” the fetus out of the womb.
Learn more about first trimester abortions (sensitive content)1. Pregnancy termination by taking pills
In the first trimester, it is possible to end a pregnancy by taking pills. It takes a few days and it feels like a heavy period.
A first medication is given to stop fetal cells from growing and dividing, and to separate the placenta from the wall of the womb. A few days later, a second medication is given for the womb to contract and empty. The process takes a few days to complete. The termination can feel like a very heavy period. The woman may stay home during the procedure, but a follow-up appointment is required to ensure that the termination is complete to avoid complications.
In some cases, the termination is not complete (some tissue is left in the womb). In these cases, it would be necessary to perform dilatation (slight widening of the cervix) and curettage (scraping of the wall of the womb from content).
2. Vacuum aspiration and curettage
In the first trimester, a doctor can end a pregnancy in a clinic or a hospital. The doctor uses instruments to remove the fetus from the womb. It takes less than 30 minutes with 2 hours of recovery. It feels like a heavy period.
Local anesthesia is provided, and the cervix is dilated (made wider) slightly to insert a small catheter (a tube). The content of the womb is suctioned through the catheter. If necessary, a curette (surgical instrument shaped like a scoop or a spoon) can be inserted to scrape the wall of the womb from content that could not be suctioned. Forceps (and instrument with pincers) are also occasionally needed.
The procedure takes 10 to 30 minutes and causes cramping similar to menstrual cramps. Recovery takes about 2 hours. A follow-up appointment is required to ensure that the termination is complete (that all the tissue has been removed). If the first attempt is not complete, this procedure may be done a second time, or it might be necessary to perform dilation and evacuation (see below).
3. Dilation with evacuation
In the first trimester, a doctor can end a pregnancy in a clinic or a hospital. The doctor uses instruments to remove the fetus from the womb. It takes less than 30 minutes with 2 hours of recovery. It feels like a heavy period.
One or two days before the procedure, a medication is given to dilate (make wider) the cervix, and/or a small device called laminaria is inserted in the cervix to cause progressive opening (dilatation), several hours before the procedure. Laminaria are thin and are about the length of a tampon.
A few hours later, sometimes the day later, local or general anesthesia is given. Women may be conscious or unconscious for the procedure. If a woman is conscious, she receives medication for pain relief, that also creates a sensation of ‘twilight sleep’. This means that she is awake, but sleepy, and will likely not remember the procedure. This is similar to what happens during colonoscopies or minor bone fracture surgery. The content of the womb is removed by vacuum aspiration. Curette, suction or forceps are also used. The procedure takes about 10-30 minutes. Side-effects include irregular bleeding for up to two weeks after and cramps similar to menstrual cramps.
Abortion in the second trimester
In the second trimester, abortion is more complex than in the first trimester. It can cause more pain, stress, and sorrow. It is usually done in the hospital. At week 14 to 23, some doctors use a surgical procedure called dilation and extraction. Others believe it is best to induce labor (see below).
Learn more about the procedures for second trimester abortions (sensitive content)Dilatation and extraction
At week 14 to 23, doctors can end a pregnancy with a procedure called dilation and extraction. The doctor uses instruments to remove the fetus from the womb. This method requires 2 to 3 days of preparation to open the womb. The woman receives medication to prevent pain or to sleep during the procedure. It takes less than an hour. For the next 2 weeks, the woman may bleed and feel cramps.
Two to three days before the procedure, a medication is given to dilate (make wider) the cervix, and/or a small device called laminaria is inserted in the cervix to induce progressive opening (dilatation). Multiple luminaria may be inserted. Laminaria are thin and are about the length of a tampon. A more significant dilation is required than during first trimester procedures. This phase therefore lasts longer.
On the second or third day, local or general anesthesia is given. Women may be asleep or awake for the procedure. If a woman is awake, she receives medication for pain relief, that also creates a sensation of ‘twilight sleep’. This means she is awake, but sleepy, and will likely not remember the procedure. This is similar to what happens during colonoscopies or minor bone fracture surgery.
With dilation and extraction, the fetus does not come out whole. It is usually not possible for parents to see and hold the fetus. An autopsy is also impossible. Some people prefer not to see the fetus. Others feel that it is an important part of grieving. This may influence the decision between dilation and extraction and labor induction. In either procedure, the fetus is sedated or an injection is used to stop its heart before the intervention. The fetus does not feel pain.
Abortions in the third trimester
In the third trimester, abortion is more complex than in the first or second trimester. It can cause more pain, stress, and sorrow. It is done in the hospital. In some cases, doctors will use dilation and extraction (see information in the section on second trimester abortions). Abortion in the third trimester may involve inducing labor.
Learn more about third trimester abortions (sensitive content)Termination by labor induction
After week 24, going into labor can be needed to terminate the pregnancy. This means that the woman gives birth. The pregnant woman feels contractions and may even produce milk later on. This kind of termination is often more difficult to cope with.
This type of abortion is done in the hospital and it takes about 2 days. Labor is caused by medication as early as possible to make it easier for the woman. The woman gives birth as she would give birth to a live baby. She can have an epidural if she wants. Pain and duration of the process depend on the size of the fetus and whether it is the woman’s first baby. It is expected to be less painful and shorter than a live birth because the fetus is typically smaller. The doctor may use an injection to stop the baby’s heart before labor.
With labor induction, the doctor may give the fetus an injection to stop the heart before labor. Other times, the fetus comes out alive and receives comfort care until it dies naturally. People may be given the choice between these options. It depends on centers, doctors and the fetus’ age. The lethal injection may be required depending on the gestational age and the center where the termination is done.
In cases where the fetus comes out alive, doctors always ensure that the baby does not feel pain. Staff is trained to support women and couples during and after the abortion.
Lactation (milk production) may occur after a second or third trimester abortion. Plans for dealing with this can be made ahead of time and may or may not include medication, depending on the woman’s desires.
Emotional support
Abortions can trigger many feelings. After an abortion, some people experience grief or sadness. Most of the time, grief and sadness decrease over time. Regret after abortion is rare. People who felt free and informed at the time of choosing abortion tend to cope better with doubts, grief, and other negative feelings they may have.
Resources are available to support people before and after an abortion. Women’s health centers are good starting points to seek these resources. Online support groups exist as well.
Links for additional information on abortion
For more information on abortion:
In English: https://prochoice.org/patients/abortion-what-to-expect/
In French: http://cmq.org/publications-pdf/p-1-2012-09-01-fr-interruption-volontaire-de-grossesse.pdf
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